Sunday, February 1 It is honorable for a man to refrain from a dispute, but every fool will become embroiled in it.​—Prov. 20:3.

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Sunday, February 1

It is honorable for a man to refrain from a dispute, but every fool will become embroiled in it.—Prov. 20:3.

 

Brothers who manifest fine Christian qualities are an asset to the congregation. A reasonable man promotes peace. If you want to be known as being reasonable, listen to others and be open to their viewpoints. In a meeting, would you be willing to support the decision of the majority if no Bible law or principle is violated? Do not insist on doing things your way. Appreciate the value of many advisers. (Gen. 13:8, 9; Prov. 15:22) Instead of being harsh or disagreeable, be gentle and tactful. As a peaceable man, take the initiative to make peace, even in tense situations. (Jas. 3:17, 18) Your kind words can soften the attitude of others, including that of opposers.—Judg. 8:1-3;Prov. 25:15; Matt. 5:23, 24. w24.11 23 ¶13

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Proverbs 20:3 shows that honor isn’t proved by winning an argument, but by knowing when an argument isn’t worth entering. Some disputes don’t advance truth; they only drag everyone involved into needless contention. In those moments, restraint protects dignity. Arguing the obvious with someone committed to nonsense doesn’t elevate the truth—it only entangles the one who should know better. Sometimes silence preserves honor more effectively than explanation.